So far, it doesn’t seem common for therapists to bring up the client’s boundaries. It doesnt seem common for the subject of boundaries to come up much at all?
Now, looking back, I’m feeling a little angry that few of my previous therapists brought up the subject of boundaries, in general, or suggested that I might want to firm up my boundaries. It would have been helpful. I didn’t know it was something lacking or needing improvement from me.
Now I’m wondering if my ‘expectations’ are too high since it seems the subject doesn’t come up much at all in other people’s therapies?
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