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Originally Posted by Soybeans
Why are you here then if you don’t seem to believe in the entire foundation of therapy? You don’t have to know everything about someone to trust them... your replies aren’t really helpful, they sound very bitter and angry and I’m sorry for whatever caused you to feel this way but I don’t want a debate on what forms trust and the philosophy of therapy and stuff...
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I don't believe in the entire foundation of therapy either.
Therapy fails a lot of people and the system is set up to encourage those same people to blame themselves rather than the therapist or therapy. I think it is therapy and therapists that should be blamed.
If someone has found therapy useful, it is fine with me but I don't think it is nearly as useful across the board as therapists portray and sell.
I don't think trust can be rushed with a therapist or anyone else. If the one you have hired is trustworthy, then I think your belief in it will come along as the therapist continues to prove to be such. I think trying to rush trust is folly.