If you got DID, then the host if missing (use whisper) basically should be with the one that less than the first ones age......If it is 7 the host is hiding whole someone there, so your 6 yrs with dr your 5 yrs with dp 4 with dissociation and so forth and so on. Good luck with that explaination on that I've yet to understand. Everyone else of finding the goes with the dependent depressed one without any awareness....When I miss my host I utilize a picture and think of time when I had no awareness and tell them not to put themselves in the picture usually at most advance knowledge you can get on the topic.....I just accept what is just like having no original birth personality then I looo kto the generations and understand I was born into eating disorder depression unwanted pregnancies and all my generations developed on how dysfunctional things where before anything psychically happened like a crack baby.....There are phases and levels to anything you do in life