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Originally Posted by Vkwong
Thank you for your response !
I went back because we spent 2 years apart and he really seemed to have worked on himself an I thought that if in which case he has actually changed then I would give my child a shot at having a whole family . I mean I’m not defending him In any way but now even when we fight he hasn’t ever put his hands on me or said anything bad to me so that’s why I’m confused a bit and I think that it’s possibly me you know ? If that makes any sense at all
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It's not you, but you probably do still have PTSD.
He put his hands on you in the past? He has been physically violent towards you??
I understand wanting to give it a chance for child's sake, but honestly, I don't have high hopes for him. As I said before, he's on his best behavior now, abuse is cyclical, and most likely he will ramp up again. If he has gotten physical before, it may very well happen again. Just be very wary.