I'm wondering if you actually take on the energy of the others you are around. If they are fidgety, anxious or agitated, you may take on that energy. In males of that age, they seem to feel wired or wound. If there was an energy transfer from them to you, it may not be so much a therapy problem, as it would be about learning how to protect yourself energetically problem. One time I was really upset by a business partner. And I had a business coach. She had me do this over the phone:

1. Go to a favorite object/possession you have.
2. Tell me why you love that possession so much.
3. Then she told me I was that possession.

This is self-love. This is how we comfort ourselves and remind ourselves who we are. And we do this after we've had a very negative encounter. It's basically about discarding the negative energy of the encounter and replacing with positive energy through the self-love. And it worked for me, in that particular instance.