I think it might depend on the person too. Like if i go somewhere with someone and we come to a place she would say "Wow beautiful furnuture" while I will see the flowers in the small vase.

It can depent on a lot of things. How we were raise, where we were raise, what is important to us, what happened in our life.

I know for myself I'm very sensitive and people feelings are more important for me then what they wear. A lot of people also hide their feelings inside while they seem happy they are hurting inside. I'm one of these people.

A lot of people are very good actors. And a lot are happy.

Take good care of yourself. I'm glad you are here with us.
Hugs!
nightdream