Kudos to all on this thread for being so civil, including your daughter who is capable of logic and reason. If you want to read my thread The Unfriending you’ll see fallout about the Kavanaugh hearings from people who can’t be civil.

IDK if your daughter habitually opposes you to prove you are separate people. Maybe she loves a good debate.

May I ask how did you get your NPD mother to the psy to be diagnosed? Trying to put my mother in front of a mental health doctor would be like the priest throwing holy water on Linda Blair.