i can understand your feelings right now, and i agree with ozzie. before, there was no light at the end of the tunnel. there is one now and that's you and your children's new life without abuse. try to remain focused on the light during this time.

if your husband continues in his "talks" with children, i would seek counseling for them and then bring that up in court. the counseling can help them deal with their feelings, separate and apart from mom and dad and the counselor would also know and be proof of the conversations that he's having with children and the potential damage to them therefrom.

you are a brave lady and i admire you.

be safe,

kd