Have any of you loved two people at the same time, for completely different reasons? I'm currently in a serious relationship. We're both passionate, and it seems like we spend more time arguing that time together or happy times, but when we have good times, they're fantastic. He is a terrible listener and doesn't like to talk, he doesn't understand emotions, but he helps me enjoy life and his silliness helps me relax more and enjoy the little things in life.


I also have a best friend, one who knows me for who I am, and I can talk to him about anything. He is a great listener, and he has always been there when I've needed him. I can't actually think of any traits about him that I don't like...


This post isn't about what I should do, or what choices I've made, but rather... have any of you loved two people at the same time? Or have you ever loved who you were in a relationship with, but been IN love with someone else?