Well, I have learned you can't change someone, and what's hard, is when you love them so much and you want them to change for you and for the relationship, and they don't. If you're not happy now, I can't imagine things getting better for the precise reason SK had mentioned - he's got you - he doesn't have to try anymore. And there are some people out there that are entranced by the chase and nothing more.

I recently read a book talked about on Oprah called "He's just not that into you" and it truly opened my eyes to what we women deserve and what men really are capable of. There are great men out there willing to go to any length to make you happy. If he won't talk about problems and does not treat you like he loves you, well, maybe "he's just not that into you.."

Pick it up and read it - it truly is empowering!

Wish you the best!