Yeah I think a house cleaner would ease the burden on my husband right now too maybe even more than having it for me it would help him. Thanks its good to hear others who have gone through this. I'll update on my meds, today is day 2 of wellbutrin and i woke up really nauseous but my head is a bit more clear and a few crackers later its a side effect i can handle which is great- im thinking this and lithium will pull me out of it I just wish I could get it all to work faster. its hard waiting for meds to kick in =(