Thanks. As my therapist didnīt make any effort to convince her supervisor to let us have some closing sessions I donīt feel I should go after her and make the end easier for her. Also Iīm not sure the session limit is the only reason she now ends therapy even if she claims it is.
I think she got cold feet when she got to know more about my issues and then suddenly realised she couldnīt handle them. But a professional T would of course still end therapy in a proper way even if her knowledge wasnīt enough to proceed into new areas.
I want my T to feel, at least to some minor extent, how it feels to be left and to wonder what has happened. I think sheīll just let things be when she notices I donīt call her on our upcoming phone session but hopefully sheīll be reminded of how she has acted towards me.
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Originally Posted by mcl6136
I think that this could be a thread of great magnitude. The decision to ghost your therapist is a critical one. And I think there are many reasons for doing so.
For me, at the present moment, it is a decision that "why should I put more into a termination than the therapist deserves."
But the truth is, my therapist has already ghosted ME, by leaving no clues as to when or whether she will return to my city.
Yes, there are people out there who know how you feel, SarahS.
HUGS
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