Thanks. Yes, thatīs correct but if my therapist had adhered to the rules within the church we hadnīt entered into therapy at all but just into more of a brief counselling.
Iīve already had two phone calls and I told her much of what I wanted her to know. Even if she kept saying what she did was wrong I never felt she agreed there should have been some termination sessions. I told her it hadnīt matter to the church and their organization if we had gotten like four or five sessions to wrap things up but she just kept referring to the session limit.
I think thereīs more to this that she didnīt let me know of. She said she kept going because she was worried how I would act when she informed me we had to end but I had of course accepted it if she hadnīt fooled me for such a long time. Letting me believe we could continue as long as I needed it as she put it.
I now canīt really appreciate she gave me more sessions as more sessions meant more attachment and more dependency which is very hard to handle now when I was more or less abandoned.
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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
So it seems to me that if you hadn't received twice as many sessions as she was allowed to give you, you'd be also terminated, albeit maybe more gently, but without the extra 20 sessions.
No one 's asking you to pretend you're okay with it. Why not have a phone call where you tell her how you really feel? I don't have a dog in this fight no matter what, but I would feel better about termination after a T gave me more than expected, rather than less. Not trying to tell you how to feel, just that I see it differently, for whatever little that is worth.
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