I can understand this feeling...
I am kind of okay with men on a friendship level, but any more than that, I get very nervous and sick to my stomach.
My mom likes to point out when men are "checking me out" and honestly, every time she does that, I feel my blood boil and it makes me want to smack her *and* the men "checking me out".
I don't feel confident or sexy when men stare at me, I feel the opposite. I HATE HATE HATE when random men on the street look at me funny... I HATE IT!