About a year or so ago I had found a text on my husband's phone to a woman named Christy, saying hello sweetheart what are you up to. Of course we got in a fight about it but it subsided. It turns out she is a friend if his uncle's and he sometimes smoked with her. I told him I didn't want him to talk to her anymore as I was weirded out about the sweet heart deal. And because I had suspicions he was doing neither drugs, not just smokijg. He said ok. We went out to the bar today, she was there. She pulled me aside and said "I'm Christy and you don't like me" this woman was around 50. We are both 28. She told me that he was her best friend and that nothing sexual ever happened between them. I kept trying to get away because I was starting to have a panic attack. O never thought there was anything sexual. I thought it was drugs. And now I'm all anxious that he's still talking to her, that he's doing drugs . And what gives her the right to say she's his best friend? I'm literally still sitting at the bar trying to get myself together. She left thank goodness, but the thought of her is lingering.