Yes, I agree with the above. This is passive aggressive behavior on her part, which in fact can be quite abusive behavior. Your thought that it’s unhealthy is accurate. It doesn’t pay off to pursue someone to tell them your hurt feelings and/or to get them to talk to you. This is her chosen way, and her tumtultuous relationships says a lot about her as a person. I like the suggestion to distance yourself and not invest emotionally anymore. This relationship is harmful and hurtful to you. (((Hugs)))