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Originally Posted by lady411
I totally understand you. I think it's normal to feel as you feel. But you also need to understand that it's your anxiety bringing all these thoughts of jealousy. It seems that your gf is a victim of these other guys trying to seduce her into cheating on you. But it doesn't seem like she is trying to cheat on you. I'd say try giving her the benefit of the doubt. I'm sorry that medication and therapy don't seem to be helpful in this situation. All you can do is try to manage your thoughts. Maybe also try communicating with your gf what you've been going thru without being confrontational or accusing her of cheating. Just tell her how you feel.
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Thanks for reply anxiety def making me feel the way i feel , just the thought of her sending nudes to another guy is just feels weird ? even tho it didnt concern me 2 years ago , i feel guilty and ashamed of myself for thinking of that , and we communicate every day while she is there , its been 3 weeks now and shes hoping to come back for good first week of November hopefully , fingers crossed .. and when was here for the weekend i mentioned how i feel about it and she said dont worry im not going to cheat or do anything to you and stop googling things i want to trust her i do but i been damned the past 3 relationships just always think all of them are the same .. i just hope this one isnt , as we are together 11 months next month . just miss her alot i get emotional alot as well when im home now with her feels like im attached perhaps like a drug i dont know just not well without her , sometimes i feel like falling off the deep end .. scary but hope everything will be ok .. thanks for the reply all . im hanging in here for now .