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Originally Posted by goldiemom
Wow such hateful responses. I guess you think all disabled people are liars. Everything is not your parents fault. Grow up.
My son was estanged from me by his father. Because of my illness they often wouldnt let me see him. I was lucky to see him for one week a year. My son grew up blaming me for not being there and harbors extreme anger toward me. His father and his family are extremely wealthy. I could never afford to live where they live nor could i get work at the time. It wouldnt have mattered anyway. My son is a yeller like many young adults today. They like drama like on reality tv. When i told him his brother who is an adult living on his own who seldom speaks to me due to drugs my oldest son started screaming at me. Thats reality.
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My response wasnt intended to be hateful. Your posts seem very self focused, bitter and angry. You seem to have no desire to take any responsibility. I guess it's up to you to decide how much effort your relationship is worth.
Blood doesnt make family. They arent obligated to keep you in their lives if its toxic to them. You may not like that reality, but it doesnt change it. The simple fact is that what you are doing isnt working. You can accept things or change them.
Finally no one said you are a liar. We work with the info presented. It certainly has nothing to do with your disability. I dont assume every opinion I dont like is because I have a mental illness. I hope you dont use your illnesses as a scape goat.