I might suggest putting less pressure on yourself. Focus on activities you want to do and your enjoyment of them. If you connect with someone, great and if you dont, that's okay because you are having an otherwise good experience.

If you would like someone to talk to, I'm here. I'm extroverted, eccentric and generally bubbly with more than a hint of crazy. I know it isnt the same as real life, but maybe some online friends could tide you over until you find your tribe. I do believe your future friends are out there, probably searching for you too. Dont give up.