I don’t think it’s unfair to say that when we are overtaxed with anything, physical illness, mental illness, or just a bad situation, or even just life, we often don’t act like the perfect person others would like us to be. I often overreact and I’ll just never be a stoical person. I am the idea person and the outside the box problem solver w my husband. I have saved his life many times w his serious health problems. I got us all in equity building properties when rates were the lowest. My son is very capable and doesn’t like to be around me. He resents me constantly moving us in his childhood and some of that was a fiasco. He is very busy and does not initiate good communication. I have little patience. My moods are yanking me all over and my anxiety demands action. Some horrific clashes have ensued.I will try to stay calm and sensible, just avoid him, or have my mentor friend buffer us.
Whatever works. I think we should get whatever help we can and put ourselves first.