Susan, your definition of unattractive is much different than what I'm talking about. If you think that applies to those you refer to, you sure wouldn't want to see me. Rayna, you say "shame on" the women who don't give me a chance. That's like saying shame on the entire female population. There's nothing shameful in being human. Those who have or have had lovers can't really say they know what it's like. I do, however, very much appreciate the concern of those taking the time to reply. As I've said before though, don't get the impression I blame my looks on everything in life. It's this whole love/sex thing that frustrates me to no end.