You're stuck. The easiest thing to do when you're stuck is to give in to it. Most people do that. So you have two choices, accept what you have and try to make it work, which it sounds like you're actually with the wrong person. Or, move on. There are other room mates you could have, if money what's keeping you there. I'd rather live with a stranger as a room mate than continue to live with someone who I don't love. Once you've freed yourself from what doesn't work, there's room for the universe to give you what you do want. As long as you stay, you will never get anything new.