See -- that's just it -- if I didn't have it around me, I wouldn't be tempted to eat the junk food. But that's my problem, I have little will power, so that's all on ME to figure out and resolve. I won't ask him to change who he is or how he eats -- well, maybe down the road for health reasons I will encourage him to eat better -- but I have to change how I eat myself.

This thread has helped me to clarify that for myself, so thank you all.