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Originally Posted by xiximmxi
Hi Raven!
I'm glad you took the higher road and gave her a second chance.
I've had a friend like this once. I ended our friendship by just telling her that I cannot talk to her anymore because I've communicated my feelings toward her multiple times and nothing has ever changed permanently. It got to the point where I felt like our friendship won't even be continued if I stopped putting in my effort, and it should never be like that. Every relationship is a give & take and if they can't even meet you half way, they will never go the full way to save the friendship when it's in trouble.
Simply wish her the best, and spend your energy more on people who deserve and appreciate your love.
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Thank you. That's exactly what I am going to do. I just can't have anyone drag me down. Some people never change their patterns or ways of communicating with others, even when we try to tell them that it is hurtful when they do certain things.
It's over four weeks now without hearing from her, and I do have the anxiety of her just popping up again. If she does, I have a feeling she will try to blame me something. I'm just going to stand my ground and wish her well. The more I look at her behavior, the more I realize how toxic it would be for me to continue this friendship. It's a shame, but I look forward to making some changes as far as who I let into my life.