I thought I'd jot down how to spot toxic people...
Feel free to add other cues that we should all be aware of!


1. They are not happy for you when something good happens to you.
2. They never "approve" the new people you bring around and don't ever try to get a long with them.
3. They have no idea how Give & Take works; they only give back enough to keep you around.
4. They blow you off without good reason.
5. They make you feel excluded when you're with other people.
6. They are nicer to you when they need something.
7. They don't defend you when you aren't around.
8. In fact they talk **** about you.
9. They stop communicating with you when there is a disagreement.
10. And makes no effort to make up.
11. And never apologizes.
12. It's all about what they want to do when you guys are hanging out.
13. They never initiate contact / get back to you.
14. The friendship would end if you stopped trying.
15. They gossip about other people to you all the time.