To truly love someone you need to really know them which takes longer than seeing them once.

Intense connection/chemistry we sometimes feel meeting a person could feel like love. But it can’t. It’s a response, oftentimes response to familiar. And often that familiar is unhealthy attachment to people who are wrong for us. Our body responds to what’s familiar and sends us mixed messages

You need to date this person a bit longer (I don’t know how long you known her). I am not saying date her for a year but sure more than few dates