Hi nowheretorun
At the risk of sounding big-headed

I always try to be VERY supportive of men with M.H. problems, to the point of offering to go to doc with them for moral support, getting them leaflets and info, giving them numbers to confidential helplines for men with depression etc.
I guess what I'm really wondering is...when you've done everything you can and more and to no avail...is it because it's coming from a woman? Is it best to enlist the help of another man...or would that make it worse on a pride level maybe?