Thanks for posting this. I am interested in the topic, as I have read that asexual people have fantasies/things that turn them on but they are not necessarily people in themselves, and I feel sometimes that applies to me. I imagine there are certain porn movies that could 'get me off', i.e. certain scenarios that might come up in such films, but I am so used to personal clitoral stimulation and 'doing it myself', that the idea of doing it with someone else seems strange and I certainly have never got very aroused during intercourse or even someone else stimulating me clitorally unless I focus on something that turns me on, rather than another person or any aspect/part of them.

Of course I also wonder if I am a lesbian, so having never been with a woman, it could just be that I have never been with the 'right' partner, but I have never fantasised about women or being with one either. I just find certain female body parts attractive to look at, but have no urge to pleasure myself when looking at them or anything like that. Whether that is considered 'the norm' (whatever that is) for lesbians or not, I don't know, although I don't think there is a 'normal' as far as any 'type' of sexuality goes.