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Originally Posted by xiximmxi

This is exactly what I needed to hear.
Should I let those people drift apart slowly or just cut them off?
Do you try to explain how you feel to them?
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My experience with doing something is sometimes that makes it worse. I believe there are many things out of our control. If something is meant to happen, nothing will stop it from happening. If something is not meant to happen, nothing will make it happen. I don't mean to say we are victims of fate. I just think there are things we came here to do, a perfect path you might call it. If we venture from that perfect path that is perfect just for us, our lives get difficult. The universe can take care of this for you, if you let it. And if you trust it.
You don't have to do anything, although doing something might make you feel you have closure. Perhaps you could find closure in other ways than by cutting them off. Also, if you do cut them off, do you have to make that decision today? Perhaps just letting things fall part on their own is enough to show you that not all endings have to be sad or painful. Even though endings are painful, their a huge part of life, but the pain doesn't last forever.