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Old Oct 19, 2018, 04:27 AM
Lrad123 Lrad123 is offline
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Originally Posted by DP_2017 View Post
I had a really bad one, I've discussed it here before. It all happened because of an email about me feeling close to him and it made him super uncomfortable. He pulled back, suddenly changed boundaries and cancelled a session on me. I wanted to die and felt like I was being severely punished for sharing, so I don't share that stuff anymore

Anyway.. we talked it out, all you really can do. I'm a forgiving person and just let it go. We have gotten a lot closer since and all is well.
I am also a forgiving person. But I’m in therapy to try to learn to listen to myself and express my emotions better. My instinct is to let it go because that’s my pattern, but it also feels a bit too easy and inauthentic not to listen to myself. So I feel kind of stuck about which way to go here.
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DP_2017, LonesomeTonight, SalingerEsme, SlumberKitty
Thanks for this!
SalingerEsme