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Originally Posted by Lrad123
FWIW, I did offer to pay for his time in reading and responding to my emails. I did not want to take advantage of him and did not want him to feel resentful. His responses were always brief, so likely not too time consuming. It is very clear that he reads my emails in great detail by what he remembers and brings up. He has also told me that he reads them more than one. He never answered me when I offered to pay him for his extra time.
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This sounds like it could be a control issue.
I’d be concerned if he can’t give a solid reason for why he’s changing boundaries. At a minimum, I’d expect him to be willing to listen to how painful this is.
If you are shut down by him, to me that would be a red flag unto how other difficult situations may be handled.