Just in case anyone doesn’t know this.
Bullies are abusers.
Bullies want us to think we can’t “cope” whatever that means. And that we “should” be ashamed of who we are.

They project “all their failings” onto us. They scream in indignation when they think we understand who they are underneath their thin and fragile mask. It baffles me why some people seem to like or respect these people. UGH.
(Not about anyone on pc)