Let me start by saying we've been together for about 4 years and married for two. We have a child. We have a regular sex life. We talk about everything. We have a good marriage.

With that being said, I've had this strange fear of marrying someone gay before even meeting him. I think this is related to knowing someone this happened to and he wasn't honest about it.

My husband and I do have sex as I've said. He really likes female bodies. However I was his first girlfriend/sex partner etc. Yesterday he told me sometimes he fantasizes about kissing male colleagues despite not actually wanting to do this. I trust him and I don't think a day dream or a fantasy make someone gay, however due to the above I'm just kind of all anxious about this now. At the same time, I want to support him and not be someone he can't open up to. I'm happy he trusted me enough to tell me. I don't even actually think he's gay. I'm just anxious about it. How can I relax and think rational about this? Thanks.