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I don't understand why MEN are so vain about their bodies when they malfunction?

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Hi drummergirl....

If I was to answer that question for myself,,it would be the fear that I was no longer a man. Now, of course, that is a misplaced fear as my manhood is not directly related to my ability to perform sexually at any given moment.

However, it is an illusion created by the society that I live in. Youth, vigor, exaggerated muscles and appendages and such smiling awe struck faces of those who would wish to be with such flesh.

It takes years of failures of varying degrees and the simple act of "becoming" as time will offer to, that we can begin to truely understand value.

I am sorry that your physical relationship puts such imbalance into your world. The act itself is such an incredible gift,,one enjoyed by most mammels and probably far more species,,but it is often what is put between our ears and not our legs that cause the most deflation in the experience...

IMHO.

Lenny