I don't understand the "My man" thing.
Did you buy him?.

And, assuming that you did, since he is your property, how come you talk on the phone once in a while, instead of being together all the time?.

Every time I'm "with" a woman, not because I bought her, but because she wants to be with me, we sleep together.
In the same bed. Night after night after night.

Have sex most every night. Unless she run out of aspirins.

Even then I don't dare to call her "MY woman".

Some affections kill. Everything. Even interest, let alone love.