I have been having thoughts back and forth on whether she is the one for me or not. I know, she and I, both wanna be with eachother but as I said earlier, I am the who regards parents as everything. But she would want us to live seperately from the family. I dont wanna hurt her feelings as well. She is a "live freely" type of woman. I dont want to deprive her of that willingness but I also want her to be a happy part of the family.