Welcome to Psych Central! I'm sorry this is happening. My mother-in-law didn't like me and my mother didn't like my husband. Yet, we all tolerated each other. But that said, we didn't spend much time with either side of the family.

I see you are from Nepal, so the guidelines and customs for married couples might be different from the U.S. What would be your idea of how much and how close your wife should be to your family?

I don't think it would be right if your girlfriend wanted you to never be with your family if you want to be close to them. But how close? I need to know more about what you expect. Okay?