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Originally Posted by unaluna
I thought we had something in common. A skewed way of looking at the world. And they are the skewer. Mine has been gone for about 3 years now - she would have been 90 this year, but sausages and 2nd hand smoke and staying out all night will take their toll on even the hardiest constitution - and i am just starting to feel normal, not distressed. And i was in therapy since my twenties.
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A constant flow of unnecessary challenges, negativity, and control will also take a toll on us. Her very being makes my life worse. Amazing stuff........my sisters and I believe she was abused as a child - my grandfather was a decorated WWII veteran which often gave him a free pass but he was also a nasty drunk. Anyway, she refuses to talk about it or address it - she just carried it on to her family. So be it. My sisters and I have resolved not to keep the cycle going with our families.