I'm sorry you guys don't think I'm late for the thread. I really need help with us and maybe post it. From my understanding a narcissist they come in and they sweep you off your feet they mirror what you are. It's like they can love you like nobody else and then one day to the next is when they start taking away everything you thought that you were. Self-esteem, Independence basically what you have become without them. And they do not do much of same as they give a lot of the silent treatment. Which is basically just telling you to be quiet for eternity. I wish I would have known this was going to start I'm sorry you guys I'm going to try to repost it thank you. And you go for a long time it's been for me almost here and a half but he still comes back around you go for a long time and sure of yourself and you wonder where everything went.