all of our babies, and all of us deserve protection. I did not get it. I am trying to give it to my kids and have failed in some aspects. I do not agree that kids have to be adjusted to the crap in society. My kids know pain and they need protection and love. I know in my heart that we have done nothing wrong and yet I feel a deep down sense of shame and fear that we did not fit into the expectations of our society. If I had it to do over I would do differently, but right now I feel like "the establishment" is the powerful parent and we went against the parent so we must be beaten.