I always make it to therapy. There are days I have had little ones inside that email my T freaking out that they want to cancel, it stems from abandonment fears and they're just overwhelmed. But she always is really, really sweet and gentle with them and gets them to see she WANTS to see them through the hard times, so we always make it.
I only missed ONCE and that was because I was an hour away staying with a friend and had finals going on and there was a miscommunication about using my friends car to go to therapy. I found out late the night before my appointment about not getting the car. For some odd reason my T called me at like 8:45 that morning (appt. scheduled at 9) but I missed the call. She called again a little after 9 and asked if I was coming. I was sleepy and disorientated. She asked if she needed to come over so we could do it at home and we told her only if she wanted to drive an hour to see us!! So we talked on the phone for about 30 minutes. But that has been the ONLY time that *I* have been the one not to make it there.