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Old Oct 22, 2018, 03:56 PM
scarlett35 scarlett35 is offline
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
I hope you keep posting ... you’re definitely not alone in finding sudden and/or early termination, for whatever reason, painful. Ideally, we would end therapy when we are ready....If there is any sort of a bond with the therapist, which most therapists try to work to create/facilitate, this would be painful for almost anyone.. as far as I know. Some people use a therapist as a service provider only. If the therapist is.. I’m not sure how to put this.. that could be possible. If early termination happens, this would eliminate the hurt. (((( hugs ))))


I will. I do like the support here. From my end I definitely felt I had some kind of bond with her, I told her most stuff and found her easy to talk to. She was a great listener (as most therapists are I’m sure!) but also a great empathiser, and it was interesting to listen to her stories too. I think she talked more than my previous therapists but I kind of liked that... I mean, you don’t know what they think or feel. She told me of course she gets attached and it’s hard for them too as they get close to their patients. That did help a little... but it still sucks!
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