Thanks for thoughts on this. Yes, in the beginning I absolutely believe she cared but at the same time itīs a strange way to care when you know your choices will probably lead to a situation one canīt solve. I now talk about her knowing about the session limit and still she exceeded the limit week after week.
I know she said to me she was worried how I would react to her needing to end therapy but such a worry hadnīt evolved if she never had promised me I could see her for as long as I needed to.
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I think your T does (and did) care, but she's stuck right now by the rules of her organization. She's likely bothered by what happened, too. At the same time, this was not your fault--it was hers. It was on her to follow the rules of the organization and enforce the boundaries. And she didn't do that, which ultimately hurt you. I suspect she did it because she cared and it was her, maybe misguided, attempt to help you. Hugs...
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