Thanks for your thoughts on this. Itīs touching to read that she cared too much, I mean seriously, not in a negative way. Whatīs hard to understand is the connection between her telling me early on that I could see her for as long as I needed when knowing that wasnīt so and her caring about me.
That she knew about the session limit from the very beginning but kept talking and acting like we could continue is very hard to understand. To me she in a way lied or at least she wasnīt honest about the situation.
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Originally Posted by Amyjay
I am not convinced. I think the fact that she couldn't terminate with you when she knew she should have done, and only eventually terminated because her hand was forced points more to the fact that she did care about you rather than she didn't. She didn't want to have to terminate you. She knew you needed the support and she cared too much to end the sessions when she should have. The abruptness of the termination is because she wasn't given a choice about it.
Yeah she did the wrong thing and should have terminated your sessions earlier and not lead you to believe you could carry on. But none of that was because she didn't care. That's your own stuff kicking in there.
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