I know the fact that I’m going to ask this is pretty immature and maybe not super constructive. However, all I can say is I think I’m just going to give into the urge anyway. I have been holding onto hope that maybe someday ex t will change her mind and be willing to reconnect and/or work with me again. For those who know what happened, do you think that would be totally out of the question/unrealistic? Do you think she’ll feel any different and we’d be able to reestablish some kind of trust? I imagine a year or two from now I will feel a lot less attached to her. This may allow me to work better with her (if I don’t feel so enmeshed) or it may just help me let go of her completely. At some point, I think it will be easier for me to let go of hope. Right now though it is helping me cope day by day.