This is what I would also try to say. If she is really hateful towards you though maybe you need to disengage. I also have had a tendency to try to keep friends even when their words are very hurtful. I hope you can work this out with your friend. Welcome to pc
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Originally Posted by Wild Coyote
It's really tough when a friend is triggering.
I would likely say something positive, mixed with the truth about how her behavior affects me.
Something like: We are good friends and you know I care a lot about you; however, lately I am very upset about your words. I'm wondering if we can talk about any misunderstanding?
Easier said than done, I know!
Again, welcome!
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