((Jello))

I don't know what happened, and if you don't want to talk about it, then it is okay.

But I will tell you this. Having gone through some recent ruptures with T, I am really, really glad I kept going and telling him how I felt even though he caused a lot of the pain I was in.

He seemed to be regularly opening his mouth and inserting his foot, on a weekly basis adding insult to injury. But I just keep going and telling him how I feel and how his statements make me feel.

And the depth of my pain has yielded incredible insight into past relationships and how they reside in me. So, because of the rupture(s) I feel closer to T than ever--as if we have reached a greater depth.

And--it ain't over yet!!!

I hope you can just keep going. Know that you have our support to shore you up.

Jeeze, who else has their own support thread to read?

(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))