Thank you so much for sharing. I've been married to my husband for only 4 yrs and I am beginning to see that he might be narcissistic as well as abusive. He grew up with a very abusive father. He doesn't see how he is mirroring a lot of his father's behaviors. As much as I love him and want help for him, if he doesn't admit it to himself, he will not change. I need to focus on my children and myself. I am reaching out for help from all directions.
Good for you that you have a good supportive son.