Hi Sisabel, yes I have to be around my family as long as my dad is ill. We're not sure yet if this is just from him being in the barn too much last week, or his lungs. He's got the phone right there, and he can reach my sister who has power of attorney. I still am the one who lives closest to him though, and all the responsibility with the barn is left to my elder son. Who also works full time. My car needs repairs so I'm also not sleeping well as I know if I get a call I'm expected to get there first, but I can't help that it needs fixing today. Just can't settle to sleep but hopefully later. Thanks for reading