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Originally Posted by clairerobin
My experience with doing something is sometimes that makes it worse. I believe there are many things out of our control. If something is meant to happen, nothing will stop it from happening. If something is not meant to happen, nothing will make it happen. I don't mean to say we are victims of fate. I just think there are things we came here to do, a perfect path you might call it. If we venture from that perfect path that is perfect just for us, our lives get difficult. The universe can take care of this for you, if you let it. And if you trust it.
You don't have to do anything, although doing something might make you feel you have closure. Perhaps you could find closure in other ways than by cutting them off. Also, if you do cut them off, do you have to make that decision today? Perhaps just letting things fall part on their own is enough to show you that not all endings have to be sad or painful. Even though endings are painful, their a huge part of life, but the pain doesn't last forever.
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Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this.
I can definitely understand what you're saying; we have to just let things be, and let things go sometimes.
I actually ended up telling him how I actually feel - I thought it would be better than just ghosting.
I've said what I had to say and now I can move on from all this... As hard as it may be to lose someone close.